For Men – Rebuilding Your Life After Being Cheated On
Finding out that your partner has cheated on you may make you feel angry, betrayed, and confused. You might wonder how you will ever trust anyone again?
At Center for Healthy Sex we understand that healthy relationships are rooted in mutual trust and respect for each other, and so it is very difficult to move forward after discovering your partner’s infidelity. Having a partner cheat on you may hurt your pride and can lead to feeling insecure and emasculated.
So much attention is paid in the media to men being cheaters and women being the ones cheated on, but we at CHS understand that it can also be the other way around.
Center for Healthy Sex’s specialized services for men who have been cheated on will help you work through your feelings about what happened. We invite you to call us at CHS so we can work with you to
- Cope with feelings of anger and betrayal
- Understand what happened in your relationship
- Restore your confidence
- Learn how to trust again
- Rebuild relationships of respect
Call now to schedule an appointment
310-843-9902
or email: info@thecenterforhealthysex.com
Recommended Reading
Not “Just Friends”: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Insanity After Infidelity
by Shirley P. Glass and Jean Coppock Staeheli
Dispelling common myths with compelling new research and case studies, NOT “Just Friends” is a groundbreaking chronicle of what occurs before, during, and after an affair: the danger signs, the vulnerabilities of even good marriages, and the step-by-step road to healing and protecting monogamy in the aftermath. buy here
After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebilding Trust When a Partner has Been Unfaithful
by Janis Abrahms Spring, PhD and Michael Spring
After the Affair is a book to help readers survive this crisis. Written by a clinical psychologist who has been treating distressed couples for 22 years, it guides both hurt and unfaithful partners through the three stages of healing: Normalizing feelings, deciding whether to recommit and revitalizing the relationship. It provides proven, practical advice to help the couple change their behavior toward each other, cultivate trust and forgiveness and build a healthier, more conscious intimate partnership. buy here
Getting Past the Affair: A Program to Help You Cope, Heal and Move On – Together or Apart
by Douglas K. Snyder, PhD, Donald H Baucom, PhD & Kristina Coop Gordon, PhD
Whether you want to end the relationship or piece things back together, Getting Past the Affair guides you through the initial trauma so you can understand what happened and why before deciding how to move forward. Based on the only program that’s been tested–and proven–to relieve destructive emotions in the wake of infidelity, this compassionate book offers support and expert advice from a team of award-winning couple therapists. If you stay with your spouse, you’ll find realistic tips for rebuilding your marriage and restoring trust. But no matter which path you choose, you’ll discover effective ways to recover personally, avoid lasting scars, and pursue healthier relationships in the future. buy here
Infidelity: A Survival Guide
by Don-David Lusterman, PhD
An affair is a major crisis in your relationship, but one which you can survive. For some couples, once an infidelity and its after effects are behind them, the marriage is actually stronger than before. For others, coming to terms with what the affair was really about can enable a couple to break up with less anger and create a settlement that will offer their children the best hope for a healthy adjustment after the divorce. Infidelity is a step-by-step guide that will help you cope with the emotional impact of an affair and either choose to break up or begin to build a new model for your marriage. buy here
How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair: A Compact Manual for the Unfaithful
by Linda J. MacDonald, M.S., LMFT
Once an affair comes to light, many unfaithful persons “wake up” and want to save their marriages. Yet, they usually make terrible mistakes in their bungled attempts to win back their partners’ trust. Linda J. MacDonald, an infidelity specialist for 23 years, has identified behaviors and attitudes that determine unfaithful persons’ success or failure to mend their marriages after the wrecking ball of an affair. How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair provides a practical road map for unfaithful spouses who wish to have another chance with their partners. Easy to read, even for the self-help book phobic! buy here
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